A lot of Courage is needed to be able to change one’s self, to change one’s ideology or ideals and ideas. The re-invention of the self is like a new birth. But in that birth your are both the mother with all the pains of birth and also the baby with all the terror of being taken away from the warm and safe womb.
Those that never change, miss the opportunity to live two lives in one, to look at your own self as another.
Who are they to judge you for being “unstable”? It is you, and only you that you control and it is your own destiny to be reborn in truth as the lies in you die.